More Kindness

I spent last night talking with my dear friend Morgan over dinner, sharing the ups and downs we have been through in the last several months since we last saw one another. Almost all of our get-togethers have the same excited, loving, and supportive energy driving our conversations. Afterall, in the last 15 years, we have been through break-ups and makeups, divorce, marriage, health issues, job loss, and sincere heartache. The kindness, openness, and support that I experience in the simple act of grabbing dinner with a friend is an inspiration to me personally and professionally. It is in the vain of these conversations that I am driven to start writing and sharing again.

The last few years have been difficult. I experienced profound loss, struggled with infertility, watched my husband suffer from lyme disease, and witnessed my family coping with grief in a variety of ways. These of course are on top of the typical stressors that we all feel in our increasingly hostile and negative environment that is the American political and cultural landscape. These hardships though have pushed me to my limit, and forced me to make some changes in my life that I feel paying off ten-fold. While it’s all still a work in progress, I am committed to making healthier, kinder, and more mindful choices in my life.

It’s not possible for me to note this daily, but for now, here are some items that I found helpful in kick-starting the change that I needed to make in my own life:

  1. Follow yung Pueblo on instagram – @yung_pueblo – his reminders about mindfulness, balance, and finding inner peace and acceptance were surprisingly helpful to me at random times in the last several months.  
  2. Read Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach. Someone recommended it to me last fall, and I was really opposed to reading it as it initially struck me as too “out-there”, too “self-help-ish”, and way too connected to Buddhism. I am not someone that meditates (although I keep trying to be), I’m not religious, and I’m generally a pretty put-together individual. I finally came around to reading this book, and I can’t speak enough about how subtly it helped to shift my perspective and mindset. If you are on the fence about reading it, I can’t’ recommend it enough. 
  3. I also returned to my yoga practice. I started watching YouTube and following Yoga with Adriene. Then, I expanded my practice and now attend Alma Yoga as well. If you are in the Hudson Valley, it’s worth checking out this studio. The kindness of the instructors and the sense of humor that they possess makes yoga so much more fun and supportive than I ever remember it being in the past at other studio’s I have tried.

These are just three quick items that helped me today, but if you need a boost, or a shift in your own mindset, give them a try! I’m looking forward to sharing more experiences and tips as I am working to meet my own goals, overcome infertility, and generally live a healthier life.

What tips do you share with your friends when they need to make a change? How do you shift your mindset to be more positive?

 

Eco friendly Maid of Honor? Working on it!

One of my close girl friends is getting married this June and I have the great honor of serving as the maid of honor in her wedding. This is a role I have been dreaming of since I was a young girl (This is not in the least bit an exaggeration… my mother used to plan on driving by our local church on saturday afternoons when she knew weddings were taking place so that I could evaluate the bride’s and bridesmaids dresses, and put my two cents in on the flower arrangements and vehicle selection). While I always wanted to have my own wedding and get to be the princess for the day, I usually found myself in the position of critiquing what other people did, and explaining to anyone who would listen how differently I would have done things if I were them.

Since being a child, I have been in other weddings in various roles: reader, junior bridesmaid, bridesmaid.
Now that I have moved up in the ranks once again, I am searching more and more options in the Hudson Valley for all different aspects of wedding planning and events.  Not just the boring (it’s all relative of course) ceremony type things, i.e. venues, officiants, etc., but also places for bachelorette parties, showers, favors, etc. Especially those with a eco-friendly flare to them! Since it is not my wedding, I am obviously not in any position to make decisions. But since I love the process so much, I have found that knowing as much as I can about all the options available in the area helps eliminate stress for the people that do have to make the decisions (the bride and groom!) I am hoping to help make my friend’s wedding planning and preparation an experience she will look back on with excitement and happiness, instead being glad it is all over!

This will most likely be a revisited topic for the rest of the spring. I have done a great deal of searching, and haven’t found very specific help or guides for Hudson Valley wedding planning. I’m on a mission to hunt down “sustainable” and “eco-friendly” bridal options in this region. If you know of anything that may be useful, please share! If I can incorporate my finding in to my blog and provide guidance and ideas to other Hudson Valley Brides, I will!

Stay tuned for my MoH diaries as they continue to unfold…

Local, Delicious, and Winter Geared Recipe

In the last year I took up a new hobby of buying cookbooks that promote healthy, local, seasonal eating. While I have a few favorites, Super Natural Every Day by Heidi Swanson is definitely one of my favorites.

Her recipes span a variety of tastes and styles, but offer healthy, delicious, and natural options from breakfast to dinner, and even snacks and hors d’oeuvre.

As breakfast is my most favorite meal of the day, I naturally tried those recipes first. While there are several that I really like, this one for Baked Oatmeal I make over and over again. Below is the recipe!

Ingredients:
2 cups – rolled oats
1/2 cup – toasted and chopped walnuts
1/3 cup – cane sugar or maple syrup (I suggest trying a brand local to the Hudson Valley such as Crown Maple or from Lanza Farms)
1 teaspoon – aluminum free baking powder
1 and 1/2 teaspoons – ground cinnamon
Scant 1/2 teaspoon – fine grain sea salt
2 cups – milk (Alla Ronnybrook or Hudson Valley Fresh perhaps?)
1 large egg
3 tablespoons – unsalted butter, melted, and slightly cooled
2 teaspoons – pure vanilla extract
2 ripe bananas cut into 1/2 inch pieces
1 and 1/2 cups of huckleberries, blueberries, or mixed berries

Directions:

  1. Preheat oven to 375 degrees with a rack in the top 3rd of the oven.
  2. Generously butter the inside of an 8-inch square baking dish.
  3. In a bowl, mix together the oats, half the walnuts, the sugar, if using, the baking powder, cinnamon, and salt.
  4. In another bowl, whisk together the maple syrup, if using, the milk, egg, half of the butter, and the vanilla.
  5. Arrange the bananas in a single layer in the bottom of the prepared baking dish.
  6. Sprinkle two-thirds of the berries over the oats.
  7. Cover the fruit with the oat mixture.
  8. Slowly drizzle the milk mixture over the oats.
  9. Gently give the baking dish a couple thwacks on the countertop to make sure the milk moves through the oats.
  10. Scatter the remaining berries and remaining walnuts across the top.
  11. Bake for 35 to 45 minutes, until the top is nicely golden and the oat mixture has set.
  12. Remove from the over and let cool for a few minutes.
  13. Drizzle the remaining melted butter on the top and serve.
  14. Sprinkle with a bit more sugar or drizzle with maple syrup if you want it a bit sweeter.

This is definitely one of my favorites!
If you have any other winter breakfast recipes, please share!

Where have all the plant nurseries gone?

After coming home from a few extended trips away, my boyfriend and I were inspired to do a little work on the small yard we have. As a talented cook, my boyfriend always has fresh herbs growing in the house. Additionally, he is always able to resuscitate the brown leaved plants that I seem to create with my lack of plant care skills. So in addition to the small basil, cilantro and lavender plants that were germinating and sprouting, we went out in search of additional plants to plant in our new garden to be.

This proved to be a difficult mission. One place that we had gone to previously was Plant Depot located on Route 9 in Fishkill. Though they had a decent selection, the prices compared to was I was used to growing up was outrageous. The hanging plants were priced between $35-40. I ended up leaving there completely disappointed. While I have a real appreciation for Adam’s Fairacre Wappinger Farms in Falls, their plant selection was not very big and they were out of hanging plants with flowers.

That lead us to our next stop which was Blooming Hill Farm in Blooming Grove, NY.  This is one of my favorite places in the valley, and I pretty sure I have mentioned it in earlier posts. They are a small, independently owned family farm that offers monthly farm dinners, has breakfast on Saturdays, and supplies products to many top rated restaurants in New York City (They also make a few of the farmers markets in Northern Jersey!). Including an outstanding homemade and local produce breakfast, we were able to pick up another lavender plant as well as a rosemary one. We also got a few beautiful flower planters, one with Black Eyed Susans, and another of Zinnias. These we planned on using to spruce up our deck a bit, as well as our home office.

After Blooming Hill Farms, we left in search of a true plant nursery. There used to be a decent one located on Rt. 94 in Salisbury Mills. Pennings Nursery was closed with a sign that said for sale when we drove by. If you check out their website, the latest update says that they are selling wholesale to the public and to call for information. Adament to continue our mission, we looked on yelp for more nurseries, and drive to two more when were both closed.

This lead us to Adam’s Fairacre Farms in Newburgh, NY, our final stop of the day on our gardening mission. Image

Here we were able to fill up our cart with plenty of perennials to plant in our back yard, a lilac plant, a planter for my front porch, as well as a hanging plant. The price for all of this as well as four bags of soil was approximately $150. We are really happy with how it turned out, and I have a small table in the kitchen with even more plants germinating (small spider plants from the one bigger spider plant that I have managed to not kill on my own!).

I’m excited to see how our garden will grow. In the meantime, I am going to continue my mission to find the smaller farms/nurseries and greeneries to support as well. It was disappointing to see so many out of business in such a lush and farm friendly area. I will not resort to purchasing my plants at a Lowes or a Home Depot. While we didn’t make it to Warwick or New Paltz, both are places I would like to check out in the hopes of finding farms like the ones I had as a child.

Does anyone else know of local farms that sells plants (flowers, herbs, veggies) to the public in the Hudson Valley? I’d be curious of those especially in the mid and upper valley areas. Please share any that you know of!

Trivia in the Hudson Valley

One of my favorite new-(ish) pastimes is bar/restaurant trivia. Since living in The Hudson Valley, I have been able to participate in a few different trivia nights in various localities. It’s a fun way to get out during the week, and if you are any good, can also win you some goodies. Here’s the run down on those that I know of, have participated in, or hope to make it to! Please share more if you know of them.

Newburgh Brewery – Wednesday Nights – This is difficult trivia! They have at least 4 different categories that they announcement on their Facebook page earlier in the day on Wednesday. If you are savvy, you can brush up on some of your facts before attending. The perks of this trivia is that you can have teams of up to 8 people. They serve $5 beers, and allow you to have food delivered directly to the brewery. The downside of the trivia is that due to the awesome size of the room (it’s huge and beautiful!) it is sometimes difficult to hear.

Captain Lawrence Brewery – bi-monthly on Thursdays – I have not ventured to this trivia yet. I can’t wait to! The reviews that I hear include excitement over the free beer tasting in the tap room prior to trivia starting. I can’t confirm that yet though, hopefully by the end of the month!

Hyde Park Brewery – Thursday Nights – It’s been a long time since I have been to this trivia due to my relocation around the valley. More college kids than the average trivia game, but to me, that also means more of a chance to win! This trivia is done by Stump! Trivia…a trivia business that hosts pub trivia at multiple locations. It’s a great game as it includes a level of wagering in every round, has picture bonuses, and always includes current events and pop culture topics in addition to other regular trivia categories.

Max’s on Main – Tuesday Nights – This is another location for Stump! Trivia. The menu at Max’s is awesome, and the owners are always in the restaurant chatting with customers (and sometimes trying to help with trivia questions!) There are a lot of regulars to this game, so it’s a tough one to win against the seasoned veteran teams. This is always a fun game. Perks of this place include the food and the company. The downside is definitely the size. It’s not as large as most of the breweries, so to get a good table on the bar side, you have to be there by 7-7:15pm.

Gleason’s – Wednesday Nights – Gleason’s food and beer list is amazing. Both their soups and flatbreads are some of my favorite. I have not tried their trivia yet, but if it’s anything like everything else they offer, I’m sure it will be awesome!

Skytop Steakhouse – Tuesday Nights – I love the Skytop. My favorite food to order their is the Garlic sliced sirloin steak. Trivia night has been increasing in popularity, and in my opinion, improving consistently. Sometimes hard to hear because of the acoustics, but still worth the game. Also, though Kingston is making a sincere effort at urban revitalization, Skytop still ensures a good crowd with no trouble or nasty drunken mishaps…which is more then a few other locations in the area can boast.

I know that there are a ton more games out there, I’ll add to the list as I learn about them. Share where else their is good trivia in the Valley!

 

Revitalization for Newburgh!

This afternoon I went to the Bank Square Coffee Shop to hang out, read, and do a little work for a class I am taking online. I was really excited to overhear the conversation that was taking place next to me. There were two men, both in their 20s and 30s, discussing how positive the changes were in Beacon. The older of the two men (who were both guitarists) noted that, “its [Beacon’s] transformation is profound enough to be wrote about one day.”  As someone who is constantly excited to walk down Main Street and see what’s new, and go to places like The Hop, Max’s, and Bank Square, I was really happy to know it wasn’t just me that lived in this bubble of excitement about Beacon.

The gentlemens’ conversation then veered in the direction of discussing Newburgh. For those of you that are not familiar with the Hudson Valley, Newburgh is (was) the murder capital of New York. While there are a number of great up and coming places in Newburgh, the poverty level in the city, as well as the lack of industry in the area, lead to a large crime rate and other typical urban dilemmas. However, as it is located just across the river from Beacon, some of the new business, traffic flow, and investment coming into the area will hopefully makes its way to the much needed community projects and business ventures just across the river.

Some fun Newburgh businesses to check out:

* The Wherehouse – Great bar/pub

* Downing Film Center – Small private film screen with smaller and larger production films

* Caffe Macchiato – Coffee shop just across from Washington Park

Though I haven’t been to any of the restaurants on Front Street yet, many of them have great reviews. During the summer, there are some great bars located right on the water. It’s a fun atmosphere and view, if nothing else! Before I venture there though, I definitely want to try Manchu Picchu, the Peruvian restaurant right on Broadway (my boyfriend, and friends have been and love it…I just haven’t made it yet!)

In general, hearing so much about city revitalization made me feel really happy today. I get excited about growth and positive development anywhere really, so to have it happening in my own backyard is definitely something that makes me smile.

What other places do you see going through this type of change? What other places in Newburgh should I try?? Please share your suggestions!

No More Tupperware

In the effort to be more healthy, eco-concious, and sustainable, I often find myself struggling against consumerism and added cost that is associated with those decisions (Beacon Natural’s is far more expensive than many other local grocery stores nearby).  Since college, I remember hearing to never put plastic in the microwave. I knew that this was because of chemicals they contained and how they could slowly leach out of the plastic and into food being contained in them. So I tried, half-heartedly to stop microwaving plastic.

My eco-conscience education continued and I learned that plastic bags at grocery stores added to landfills at an immeasurable rate, and that I should switch to paper which was more easily recyclable and bio-degradeable. After that, I learned of sustainable options such as canvas bags, which I could bring to the store myself, and not waste any paper or plastic. I wasn’t adding to landfills, I wasn’t ruining the rainforest, and I was being a conscientious consumer!

While grocery shopping though, I would often be disappointed in the decisions I was forced to make in buying spinach in a plastic box, while carrying around my canvas grocery bag. If it wasn’t spinach, it was meat (packed on styroform and wrapped in plastic) or fruit in slotted plastic containers such as strawberries or blueberries. I felt like grocery shopping in general took away from the decision I had made to be eco-friendly. I felt helpless because if it came down to spinach in a plastic box, or no spinach at all… the plastic box was coming home with me.

In the past few years, my boyfriend has rekindled my desire to continue to make better and more healthy choices for myself and the planet. When eating breakfast with him, I would brag that my milk was from Ronnybrook, and came in a glass bottle (with a plastic cap), so I was being super green by not only buying local, but in sustainable glassware. My green ego wouldn’t last too long though. He would remind me that I was being eco-conscious, but poisoning myself with chemicals in the microwave at the same time. With gentle and continuous reminders, some subtle – passing me a glass container as I reach for the microwave… and some more overt – “you are poisoning any future children that we may have” as I take my plastic container out of the microwave, he weaned me off of my plastic tupperware addiction, and pushed me into Pyrex (glass food storage option that is widely available and affordable).

On January 13th, 2013, I read an article in The New York Times, Eat Like a Mennonite, which gave me even more reason and cause to veer away from most plastics, not even just ones heated in the microwave! Bisphenol – A, more commonly referred to as BPA, is a chemical used as a plastic hardener that has been linked with obesity. Additionally, BPA has been preliminarily linked with breast and prostate cancers. This chemical is present in many wrappings, food containers, and liners of food products, even if they are organic and natural products themselves. The article discusses the challenge of eliminating BPA from the authors life for a few days. Though she notes it would be nearly impossible to completely eliminate the chemical from your life if you live in any populated area and consume any type of commercial products, there are small changes that can be made to significantly lower your exposure to BPA. I for one, stopped purchasing bottled water, and instead invested in a water filter and a Life Factory Water Bottle to carry filtered water with me in a BPA free container.

Granted, these changes for me were expensive in the short term (Brita filters 5/$24.99 Life Factory Bottle $19.99/ Brita Water Pitcher $15.99), I can only hope that the expense of being ecological, sustainable, and HEALTHY will pay of later on long term. Hopefully I can continue to make changes like this, that are relatively easy to do, and are sustainable options. What recommendations do you have??

Finding Green

Living in Beacon has provided a great deal of inspiration to not only foster my own green living habits, but also encourage others to see the importance and satisfaction of being sustainable in their lifestyle.

Beacon boasts restaurants such as Homespun Foods – exquisite healthy, local and in-season cuisine. This is addition to outrageous burger shop Poppy’s, and  coffee shop, Bank Square, that gets supplies from places as close as Tarrytown and Brooklyn, New York. All of these are just in the culinary category alone!

I look forward to sharing my experiences in finding “Green” in the Valley, and ask you to share recommendations for me  too!